Goes for him and me. You figure I'll always be there because I always have been. And...he knows he can do whatever he wants to you. He's beat you, stole from you, ridiculed you, cussed you, destroyed your property, disrespected you, used you...and yet, there you are..."but I love you! You're my soulmate, we were meant to be together!" If that's how you feel about yourself, that you are a punching bag and a lay, then yes, he's perfect for you.