namby-pamby

From the poem Namby-Pamby (1726) by Henry Carey, a satire on the sentimental pastorals of the poet Ambrose Phillips.^[1][2]

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namby-pamby (comparative more namby-pamby or namby-pambier, superlative most namby-pamby or namby-pambiest)

1. Insipid and sentimental.
2. Lacking vigor or decisiveness; spineless; wishy-washy.
   • 1847 January – 1848 July, William Makepeace Thackeray, Vanity Fair […], London: Bradbury and Evans […], published 1848, →OCLC:

     […] she was still, as heretofore, a namby-pamby milk-and-water affected creature […]

   • 1999, Nicola Diane Thompson, quoting Marie Corelli (c. 1905), Victorian Women Writers and the Woman Question, page 246:

     She boasts to Bentley that the Prince of Wales admires her books for the “fearless courage” of her opinions. “He said, ‘There is no namby-pamby nonsense about you – you write with a man’s pen, and I should think you would fight your enemies like a man!’ These words delighted me, for to be ‘namby-pamby’ would be a horror to me,” she writes.

namby-pamby (plural namby-pambies)

1. One who is insipid, sentimental, or weak.
   • 1725, Capt. Gordon [Henry Carey], Namby-Pamby: Or a Pangyric on the New Versification Addressed to A⸺ P⸺ Esq., →OCLC:

     Namby Pamby’s doubly Mild,
     Once a Man, and twice a Child;
     To his Hanging-Sleeves restor’d
     Now he foots it like a Lord;
     Now he Pumps his little Wits;
     Sh—ing Writes and Writing Sh—s,^[sic]

2. Talk or writing which is weakly sentimental or affectedly pretty.
   • 1892 [1843], Thomas Babington Macaulay, “Life and writings of Addison”, in Lord Macaulay's Essays‎^[1], page 790:

     Another of Addison’s favourite companions was Ambrose Phillipps, a good Whig and a middling poet, who had the honour of bringing into fashion a species of composition which has been called, after his name, Namby-Pamby.

• (weak person): namby, nestle-cock, sissy, softy; see also Thesaurus:milksop

namby-pamby (third-person singular simple present namby-pambies, present participle namby-pambying, simple past and past participle namby-pambied)

1. To coddle.
   • 2012, Alan Tyers, Who Moved My Stilton?: The Victorian Guide to Getting Ahead in Business:

     While we business men of Britain have little time for this sort of namby-pambying towards the next generation, who are often feckless, tearful, small, dirty or all of the above, there is no doubt that youths have their place in commerce.